I’m constantly torn between “if it’s meant to be, it will be” and “if you want it, go and get it.”
“if it’s meant to be, it will be” – friendships, relationships, people in general coming into your life, dealing with rejection
“if you want it, go get it” – your goals, aspirations, work and work ethic, changing your life (diet, exercise, hobbies, political views, opinions)